“Shems is one of the few coaches
I consider a master in his field.
I especially appreciate his
ability to tune into the more
subtle levels within that only a
modern day shaman can be with.”
~ Diana Chapman
I Guide Men, Women & Couples Along The Path Of Empowering Your Life And Relationship
With commitment, support and a willing heart,
a whole new realm of possibilities will open up to you!
COACHING, COURSES AND RETREATS
Shems works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions as well as leading online courses and experiential retreats.
Guidance, support, and tools
for men to Lead, Love, and Live
your best life!
MEN'S LEADERSHIP COUNCIL
A year long Mentorship and catalytic learning environment
EMPOWERED LOVING COURSE
An 8-week online couples course to take your relationship to the next level.
Shems has been honing and sharing his craft for over 20 years and has mentored with some of the most influential teachers in the fields of coaching, healing, relationship, and transformation. He blends his experience and knowledge into highly effective work that is the leading edge of the human potential movement. Shems is also a passionate athlete and musician, living with his beloved wife Achintya on the beautiful island of Maui.
- Certified Leadership & Relationship Coach (Hendricks Institute)
- Professional training and mentorship work with Robert Masters Center for Transformation
- 2 years training in Relational Constellation and IFS work at Relational Constellation Institute
- 18 years of experience in men’s work, retreats & facilitation
- Boys To Men youth Mentoring Facilitator
Empowered Loving: A Guide To Learning
and Growing Through Relationships
"I can think of few people I know who embody what they teach as authentically as Shems Heartwell and you are lucky to have him as your guide on your journey towards a more empowered way of living and loving. His wisdom and knowledge are timeless and his words resonate with truth and the first-hand experience of what he teaches. You are in good hands."
– Justin Faerman, Artist, Healer, Coach, Conscious Entrepreneur
“I HIGHLY recommend Shems to any man ready to take his life to the next level of embodiment, potency, integrity, love, and true success. Shems IS the real deal!”
- Tobin Zivon
“Working with Shems changed my life. He helped me process emotions that were deep, dark, and young. Stuff I would never have wanted to address on my own, nor would I have known how to. He has helped my relationship with my Husband, my daughter, my mother, and myself. I could not recommend him enough. He is truly a gift.”
-Shereen Thor www.awakentherebel.com
"Our work with Shems has been so valuable and transformative. He can cut through cross talk to the heart of the matter, help us to create space and movement where there is contraction and freeze, curiosity where there is defensiveness, and understanding where there is distrust. His skill in counseling comes not only from decades of extensive training and practice, but from walking his own journey in the sincerest and humblest of ways, with an absolute commitment to truth and growth, and an ocean of kindness.”
- Chloe Conger https://www.chloeconger.com